Chapel Book Review: Trusting God: Even When Life Hurts

By: Staci Easin

One verse we love to recite is Romans 8:28, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”

We’re good at reciting it, but we don’t always remember it. Especially when trials blindside us. In the book Trusting God: Even When Life Hurts, Jerry Bridges explores this concept. Does God really work all things for our good and his glory?

The point of the book is that God is sovereign over all. But because it’s important not to take one of God’s attributes and focus on it to the exclusion of the others, Bridges also takes time to examine God’s love, goodness, and holiness.

The opening chapters deal with God’s goodness. Can we really trust him? Is God really in control. If so, is he good? The middle chapters take on specific issues like God’s sovereignty over people, nations, and nature. The final chapters discuss common issues that come up when we meditate on God’s sovereignty, such as personal responsibility, God’s love for us, how to trust him, and how to be thankful.

I found this book at a time in my life when I was struggling with worry and anxiety. The truths in this book and Bridges gentle but thorough treatment of them brought me tremendous comfort. I’ve returned to this book many times and always recommend it when someone I know is enduring one of life’s storms.

Trusting God is one of those books that I think any Christian, in any season of life, in any set of circumstances will find helpful. It is available in the Chapel library.

Staci Eastin is a wife, mother, and member of Cape Bible Chapel.  You can find out more about her book, “The Organized Heart: A Woman’s Guide to Conquering Chaos,” and read more reviews and tidbits from Staci at her blog: http://writingandliving.net/

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DNOW Weekend

By: Andy Callis (CBC Student Ministries Pastor)

This week is a big week for Reverb Student Ministries. It’s Disciple Now week! DNow is our annual local retreat that we do with several other churches in the Cape/Jackson area. Students have the opportunity to hang out with their friends in a host home with some young adult leaders for an entire weekend as well as see students from all over the area in large group worship venues.

This year, our theme is Reckless Abandon based on a video series by JD Greear. Students will wrestle with whether or not they see Christianity as a bunch of rules that bind them up or if they see the Gospel as the truth that brings freedom and excitement to life! They study this in 4 sessions at their homes and hear from speaker Adam Donyes, a director at Kanakuk Camps in Branson, about the subject as well throughout the weekend.

Of course, much of the discipling comes from the “life on life” time that is experienced by students during the weekend. Whether it’s hanging out during free time or driving to the next event or after a moving talk, leaders have a lot of time with the students and therefore a lot of opportunities to speak truth into their lives and listen to their hearts. Host families have great opportunities to do the same over the course of the weekend.

Many students point back to DNow as the time they committed to Christ for the 1st time or the time they really drove a stake in the ground for Jesus and to live for Him. Be praying that God does even more this year of what He’s done in the past. Pray for changed lives of unbelieving friends coming to DNow and for believing students to be propelled forward in their faith. Pray for leaders to be equipped, energetic, and understanding. Pray for host homes to be hospitable and loving to their guests. May God get the glory for the great things that happen this weekend!

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Eight Thoughts on Healing and Sickness

James 5:12-14 plunged us into intriguing waters this past weekend (you can access the entirety of the message at www.capebiblechapel.org).  But special attention was paid to verses 13-14 and their dealing with sickness and healing, two oft misunderstood and misused concepts.

Here our eight principles, taken from Scripture, that deal with Scripture and healing:

  1. All sickness is the result of mankind’s original sin.

When sin entered the world, death entered the world, too.  This is clear in Genesis, and along with death came other things: toil, pain, difficulty in child-bearing, relational strife.  Sickness is among these consequences of sin.  If there had never been sin, there would be no sickness.  Likewise, since our future eternal home will be void of sin, it will also be without sickness and the other consequences of sin.  No more flu or cancer or lameness or blindness or any other physical maladies.  But while on this earth, laden will sin, one can expect to witness and experience sickness.

2. Sickness can be the result of personal sin.

John 5:14 is a proof text for this statement.  Jesus had healed a man by the Pool of Bethesda, a man who had been ill for nearly forty years, no less! Later, running into this healed man in the Temple, Jesus says to him: “Behold you have become well, do not sin anymore, so that nothing worse may befall you.”

In that simple statement Jesus is displaying that, yes, our personal sin can cause illness.

Another example can be found in I Corinthians 11:30 when Paul addresses the congregants in Corinth who had been getting drunk during communion.  Paul explains, “For this reason many among you are weak and sick . . .” For what reason?  For the reason of their sinful approach to and action during the Lord’s Supper.  Again, sickness was caused by personal sin. A coarse microcosm of this concept is drunkenness and the ill-effects that tend follow it.

A last instance of this principle could be the numerous statements (especially in Proverbs) that speak to honoring one’s parents as a way of attaining a long life.  These statements are not promises of longevity, but common sense wisdom that will likely prove beneficial when heeded.  Applying this to today’s context, I avoided many an illness by “honoring” my mother and wearing a coat, at her insistence, in the wintertime.  By avoiding the sin of disobedience as a youth, I evaded many an illness and physical injury (“Quit driving like a maniac!” was advised a time or two) and hence guaranteed myself a better chance at reaching adulthood in one somewhat healthy piece.  When I disregarded my dutiful mother’s instruction, I sometimes got sick or injured, a direct result of my sin.

3. All sickness is not a direct result of personal sin.

This distinction is so important, and its best example can be found in the man of Job.  Job was sick, tremendously so.  He was covered, from head to toe, in festering, pus-filled boils.  The man’s body was a travesty.  Yet, before this sickness set in, Job was regarded as a “blameless and upright man fearing God and turning away from evil” (Job 2:3).  The remainder of Job’s story is spent with discussion on why he became ill, and throughout, his “friends” answer that it is a result of sin.  If Job would only repent, well, then he’d be healthy like us, they reasoned. This was an absurd, inaccurate stance and God weighs in on it toward the end of the book.

In short, people get sick.  Sometimes this is linked to personal sin, but often it is a mere byproduct of living in a groaning, sinful world.

4. Some sickness is a result of Satanic activity.

Again, we can begin with the book of Job and where it says, “Then Satan went out from the presence of the Lord and smote Job with sore boils . . .” (Job 2:7).   Luke 13:16 speaks of a woman whom Satan had “bound for eighteen long years” with some heinous sickness.  Even Paul, the great apostle, dealt with a Satan induced condition when he says in his letter to the Corinthians that he has some illness that is a “thorn in the flesh, a messenger of Satan . . .” (2 Cor. 12:7).

5. God can and does heal.

God heals and heals enough to have a nickname for it: “Jehovah Repheka” (which translates to: “The Lord, your Healer”).  Throughout Scripture His healing hand is seen touching lepers, the blind, the lame, the crippled, and others in times of physical despair.  And remember, those are just the canonical accounts.  Think of all the times throughout the ages, and even into today’s times, in which God has taken the role of Healer.  God has, since the beginning, been a Healer and He continues to heal today and will heal for as long as there is a tomorrow.

6. Healing is not something we can demand of God.

This is similar to “revival.”  We cannot demand it, promote it, advertise it, or yell it into being.  These things belong to the Lord and they come as He wills it.  And while there are verses that deal with God healing (Isaiah 53:5, I Peter 2:24,25, Matthew 13:15), most of them concern, at present, the spiritual healing God has brought in His Son.  There is a “now-not yet” entity even in terms of healing that reveals God to heal us now spiritually, but, in most cases, the physical healing will be realized upon receiving our glorified bodies.  That is why Romans 8:23 speaks of groaning and of “waiting eagerly for . . . the redemption of our body.”  God has healed spiritually and will heal physically, but the timing of this latter healing is ultimately, like all things, his.  This whole discussion flows neatly into the next point:

7. It’s not always God’s will to heal.

Many in our world balk at this statement.  “What?  Why would a loving God not desire to heal His children?” Before answering that, let us consider II Timothy 4:20 which has Paul explaining, “but Trophimus I left sick at Miletus.”  Why would Paul do such a thing to poor Trophimus, unless, of course, it just wasn’t God’s will to heal Trophimus. I doubt Paul just “wasn’t in the mood” to heal his friend before leaving.  Healing, you see, wasn’t Paul’s domain; it was God’s.

In II Corinthians 12:7-9 we get another look into an occasion in which God didn’t see it fit to heal.  In that passage, Paul prayed three times that God would remove the “thorn in his flesh” (a presumed sickness, likely of the eyes).  God didn’t touch Paul with a miraculous healing or have some pastor come preach the sickness out of Paul.  Nope, God replied, “My grace is sufficient for you.”  God wanted to be glorified by manifesting His power through Paul’s physical weakness.  Healing is never about us, at least in the ultimate sense.  So whether it occurs or not in our little lives, it is always present or lacking for a purpose: namely, to glorify God.  So therefore it is not our place to demand and require healing from God, but rather to seek His will and accept His sovereignty, even when that sovereignty determines it best for us to suffer physical trials in these earthen vessels.

8. It’s God’s will that we pray for healing.

Paul kept praying for God to heal him.  He prayed again and again (and then again for good measure!) and he only ceased praying for healing when God clearly said, “No. My grace is sufficient.”  So unless you’ve heard God say that same thing to you, keep asking, seeking, and knocking.  Often healings in the Bible came after years and even decades of waiting.  Those people, suffering many times from terrible afflictions, likely asked every day all day for their sores and aches and lameness to be removed.  But they waited and waited until finally Jesus arrived on the scene.  That, in many ways, is what was so miraculous about these occurrences: the fact that no one thought these people capable of being well for the very fact that it had been so long (in some cases all of life) since they had been!  We are to pray for healing in a hopeful, faithful fashion and we are to accept God’s will, whatever that is, with joy and thanksgiving.

 

So there you are.  Eight somewhat pithy points to wrestle with regarding healing and sickness.  I hope they find you well, but if they don’t, if they find you struggling with sickness for you or a loved one, I hope you look to find answers in the manner James prescribes: a steady dosage of prayer to the Lord, your Healer.

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Jumping In, Bowing Down

Sometimes I’m assigned the task of teaching God’s Word.  First, how cool is that?  The Bible tells us that speaking of God or about God requires the Holy Spirit (two such instances of this can be found in John 3:34 and 2 Peter 1:20-21).  When we come together and hear about God, it is because the speaker is being filled by the Holy Spirit and the hearers are being made able to hear by the Holy Spirit.  It is a special union that is taking place, and this weekend, I’ll get to do a little of that.

But I digress.  The point is I was “assigned” a topic for this week.  Often when I teach it is much like another description of the Holy Spirit: “the wind blows where it wishes.” Typically, when speaking at church or a camp or somewhere, I’m told, “Yeah, speak about whatever.  Just mind the time, please.”  I don’t always mind the time, but that is neither here nor there.

This week was different, however, because I was told a topic.  Not Scripture or anything.  Just a topic.  And here is the topic, “Prayer in Leadership.”

And so I’ve been studying prayer.  I’ve been reading about prayer.  I’ve been asking others about prayer.  I’ve been writing about prayer.  And you know what I realized just now, with my Bible open and notes out?  I haven’t been praying about prayer!

I haven’t been praying much at all, really.  All I keep reading is how important prayer is.  How it reminds us of what God has done, shows us what God will do, connects us to God, and gives us peace in a helter-skelter world.  And with each reminder, I’ll “Amen.”  I’ll fist pump.  I’ll say, “How cool is that!”  But will I pray?

Last week I was on a faraway beach. (And if that comment causes you to stumble into jealousy I apologize.)  It was warm–hot even–and sunny.  But here’s the deal, I’m not a “lay there and bake” person.  I like activity.  So I left my beach chair and walked around a bit.  Not far into my walk, I happened upon a sand volleyball court, and there upon it, yep, people playing sand volleyball.  I love this!  I like sports and volleyball and meeting people and actually making my body move (yes, even on the beach).

So I watched.  And watched.  Man, did it look fun.  I inched closer and closer to the court.  After one of the games, the players on the court began inviting bystanders into the game, “Wanna jump in?” they said to lookers-on.

And here is the crazy thing.  I had been waiting to play for like twenty minutes.  I had been hoping to “jump in.”  It looked great, exactly what I needed to avoid more dreaded lounging.  But, in that moment, when the time came to get in the game, I inexplicably walked away.

Call it pride, call it stupidity, whatever it was, it was the exact same thing I tend to do with prayer.  Man, that Elijah, he could pray it up; I wish I could have power for God like him!  What a sweet prayer of repentance David just had in Psalms . . . man, if only I could do that!

Well, I can.  God allows it and even encourages it.

I need to pray.  I want to pray.  Prayer is good.

I think I’ll “jump in” to prayer right now, and I hope, maybe, just maybe, you will, too.

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Landing Among the Stars or Shining Like One?

If you missed church this week (don’t worry,  I won’t tell on you), here is a link directing you to Cape Bible Chapel’s media player: http://www.capebiblechapel.org/media.php?pageID=5.  You should check out the message (as the message will surely check you!).

Jesus was pretty different, at least from me He was.  The general theme of my life has been summarized by the quote that was up on the wall of my high school Math Class: “Shoot for the moon.  Even if you miss, you’ll land among the stars!”

I mean, that is what you do, right?  Succeed your way out of your present situation, snicker at those stuck where they are or moving parallel, and just keep moving up, up, up . . . there are no ceilings in space.

But Jesus was from Nazareth; that was his hometown.  He had a Nazareth Carpenter’s letterman jacket.  “Can any good thing come out of Nazareth?” Nathanael said when hearing that Jesus was from there.  “Nazareth! Really?”

And it wasn’t only that Jesus was from Nazareth, but that He went back to Nazareth time and time again.   Sure, the name may not have been Nazareth, just as the names of towns in little Southeast Missouri and Southern Illinois counties are called different things.  But they are the same in one way: basically, they are Nazareths.  They are to be risen above, moved on from, dismissed and forgotten for the bigger and better.

That is my mindset.  Jackson is too small, so I move to Cape.  Cape isn’t all that flashy, so I look to St. Louis.  St. Louis is a small city, so it is Chicago for me.  Chicago has a crummy baseball team, so how about Boston (had to work that in there, right?).  And what I do in this life is miss where I am because I’m busy always looking toward where I feel I ought to be: Bigger and better.

And in that way I live in a state of constantly calling, “Next,” rather than living with any sense of calling now.  I miss opportunities. But most of all, I miss people.

Now there is nothing wrong with moving or pursuing career or seizing opportunities.  But there is something wrong with a mindset that substitutes the importance of the Gospel for that which is fleeting.  Is God’s Kingdom more weighty than your own?  Does your answer reflect your lifestyle and the manner in which you pursue lost people?

God has us all here today (wherever “here” is for you).  That may not mean you are in this place–wherever it may be–for life, but why worry about all that; you are here now.  And probably, for most normal ones among us, there are others where you are.  Family.  Friends.  Neighbors. Strangers.  Are they a worthy calling?  Is loving them and sharing with them and living and striving among them a worthwhile Gospel pursuit for you today?

We are to go into all the world to make disciples.  Tomorrow that may mean any manner of places for you.  Just now, today, that “all the world” means wherever you happen to be.  It may not be flashy or crowded or “all the rage.”  It may be some common, lackluster locale.  It may just be another dusty Nazareth or Bethlehem or Advance or Jackson or Cape Girardeau.  But it is where God fitted you for mission on this day, today.  Will you go, today, like Jesus did, not worried so much about the “where” but always looking for the “who” with whom to share?

I hope you will.  And I hope I will, too.  In the end, after all, it isn’t about landing among the stars but shining like them.

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Fascinating Marriage

By: Jeremy Kallin

Have you ever watched a work of art take shape?  If you are patient, it can be fascinating, even delightful, to observe as an undefined form surprises you with recognition.  Unfortunately, we are not all that patient.  You see, a work of art requires preparation and constant perfecting until it is complete.  The artist will sketch, wash, detail, and correct until the work is presented as complete.  We are eager for that finished work, as we should be.  Yet, it is the process of the work that truly gives us an appreciation for the skill and care of the artist.

The Bible teaches us that God is the Artist who is skillfully perfecting us.  He wants us to be delightfully surprised as His will is revealed and recognized in our relationships, especially within our marriages.  Unfortunately, we are not all that patient when it comes to marriage.  Why is it that all over the world, people are just trying to make marriage “work,” when, in fact, God has designed marriage as a gift for us to enjoy!?

This February we are going to take a close look at God’s design for marriage as presented by Family Life’s video event The Art of Marriage.  This event weaves together “expert teaching, engaging stories, man-on-the-street interviews, humorous vignettes, and much more to portray both the challenges and the beauty of God’s design” for marriage.   Participants each receive a workbook and have intentional time with their spouse to evaluate their marriage and complete life-changing projects.  One of the favorite projects for both men and women is the opportunity to write a love letter to their spouse, reminding them why they chose their spouse and why they are committed to them.  Others have said some of the most important things they learned from the event were: “to love my wife unconditionally, faithfully, intentionally, based on the covenant that we’ve entered,” “I learned more about God’s plan for marriage, which is something we had never heard before,” “to take more time to listen to my wife,” and “how to deal with conflict and how important respect is for my husband.”

If you are ready to get past making your marriage “work” and want to understand God’s design for your marriage, come to The Art of Marriage video event at Cape Bible Chapel on February 8-9.  Sessions begin Friday evening at 7:00 PM.  You can register online at capebiblechapel.org, or simply contact Jeremy Kallin at Jeremy@capebiblechapel.org.

Keep in mind, it is the process of the work that truly gives us an appreciation for God’s skill and care in our marriage.  It can be fascinating to watch, and The Art of Marriage is a great place to start.

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Living on the Edge

By: James Green

I have a healthy respect for heights (some might say a fear!) that I can trace back to an unfortunate incident where I got knocked off of a ladder while I was trimming trees as a teenager.  Since that accident, I get sweaty palmed and anxious in high places – not like tall buildings or the top of the Gateway Arch; those places don’t really bother me because I feel safe and have a lot of confidence in the structure.  No, the places that scare me are tall platforms, high balconies, things that are tantamount to the edge of a cliff.

Why do those things scare me so much?  It’s got to be that fear of losing my balance and plummeting to the ground!  Honestly, if I was on a one foot by one foot wood platform that was one foot off the ground, I wouldn’t be stressed at all.  However, one year at Young Life camp, I found myself on a one foot by one foot platform that was 60 feet off the ground – and all of a sudden my backbone felt like it was made of silly putty!

Standing on the edge is a little frightening , but living on the edge can be even scarier!  However, I have met some people (strange, strange people!) who seem to really enjoy the thrill of “living on the edge”.  These are the people who work on skyscrapers and attach the carabineers to your harness at the top of the repelling station!  What’s their secret?  They have learned how to both respect the height and still function effectively.

Dan taught this past weekend from John 17:18-20 about how to do just that: to understand the importance of reaching out to lost and hurting people while recognizing that the world is a dangerous place.  If we are to live on the edge as Christ followers, then we have to follow God’s command to go into the world and yet remain set apart and not become conformed to the world.  He shared that there was one proven and correct way to engage the world around us, and that was to go like Jesus and be distinct like Jesus.

Sadly, sometimes we shut down as soon as the model for our method is Jesus.  We feel there is no way we can possibly accomplish the task if Christ is our benchmark.  Can you image growing up as Jesus’ brother?  Mary always saying things like, “Why can’t you be more like your brother?”  That’s a tough home environment!

But Dan explained, we can go “like Jesus” if we don’t attempt to isolate ourselves from the people around us, if we don’t place obedience to rules over our relationship to God through His Son, if we love people graciously as opposed to hating them confrontationally, and if we don’t engage the world by embracing the world’s systems.

When Jesus “went” into the world, He taught an intentionally scandalous and offensive message (the authentic Gospel), yet He shared it in such a winsome way that people were still drawn to Him!

Dan concluded by reiterating that “going” is a dangerous mission – even when we go like Jesus; distinct in our message and our
character.  Therefore, the way to “go” is as Jesus instructed in Matthew 10:16 – as sheep in the wolves den; staying close to the Shepherd so that we don’t get eaten!

Living on the edge is the kind of life God desires for us, as Christ followers.  In 2013, will we accept the challenge to go into the world yet remain set apart or will we be so scared of the edge that we will become isolated, legalistic, confrontational or compromising?  As a local body – let’s embrace the challenge of our mission statement: to both know God better and to make His name famous; let’s make Christ known by boldly getting out on the edge like Jesus!

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Vision Weekend at Cape Bible Chapel

This weekend marks Cape Bible Chapel’s Vision Weekend.  During the weekend services, you’ll have a chance to get acquainted the pastoral staff, hear building updates, and listen to a message concerning the Chapel’s Mission Statement: “Knowing Him and Making Him Known.”

In that message, centered around John 17:18, we’ll consider the true nature of our vision, and how that vision aligns with what God sees.  Are we people who “live on the edge” in terms of our mission?  Or are we hidden well away from the front-lines of the spiritual battleground?

There are a lot of exciting things planned for 2013 here at Cape Bible Chapel.  We hope you will come out this weekend to hear how God is at work here and how we can all better join Him by embracing the mission He has for us.

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How Are You Waiting?

What are you waiting on?  No, seriously?

But perhaps a better question is: How are you waiting?

This weekend we looked at James 5:7-11 (available here: http://www.capebiblechapel.org/media.php?pageID=5).

Even in James’ day there was a propensity for impatience, and though some people might have thought things would get better, society has kept them waiting in that regard.  We live helter-skelter lives of reckless impatience, made evident daily as we experience road rage and spend precious moments of life fuming over the person in our check-out lane—a lane clearly marked “20 items or less”—who has the audacity to line up 21 items on the conveyor belt (of course you counted their items: you’re in a hurry!).  We complain about slow internet, slow cars, slow people: we have a need for speed in every aspect of life.

But what is at the root of all this fast-paced action?  Could it be that our need for speed is really an in-born desire for control?  Isn’t that truly what “waiting” is, an absence of control in a situation?  When the doctor’s office won’t call me back (even though they’ve called several people back who arrived after me!) what is the real cause of my angst?  Could it be less about the waiting and more about relying on the doctor and trusting him with the stewardship of my time?

What would happen, though, if we came to the realization that of all the seconds of this precious life, none of them were ours?  God created time, He knows the number of days we have, and controls the circumstances of our lives.  Time is in His hands; it belongs to Him.

If I truly lived like my seconds were God’s, perhaps I might redeem the time in the grocery line by sending an encouraging text to a friend or starting a (positive!) conversation with someone behind me in line?  Maybe I would pray for the driver who swerves into my lane instead of cursing him or her?  Maybe that doctor’s office wait could present a chance to get in the Word or share my faith or just be still for a spell?

As we view the world beginning with God and then funneling down to our little lives, it should allow us a calming sense in our hearts.  It will permit us to love frustrating people more because they are God’s and because He put us circumstantially together.  And, maybe, just maybe, it will enable us to wait patiently and contentedly on others and the Lord in our lives.

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Tickled by Truth

By: James Green

We play “tickle monster” at my house.  I don’t think we invented the game; it’s basically hide and seek, only after you find the “hider” you tickle them into submission.  Even as my kids get older, it’s still our favorite game-night activity.

I am always the tickle monster and all my kids are ticklish, so it’s exceptionally easy to bring them to the brink of bladder control issues when the “monster” catches them, but my oldest son, Gavin, is in a league of his own when it comes to being susceptible.  He laughs the loudest and the longest, so naturally, he is my favorite target.  Sadly, he’s also by far the quickest of my children and I have bad knees – so I don’t catch him near as much as I’d like.

To make up for my inability to win at the game fair and square, I often take advantage of other good opportunities to tickle him; when he’s reading, eating, watching TV, sleeping and other times when he lets his guard down.

The other night I got ready to give him a hug before he went to bed and as I approached he hit the ground and rolled into the fetal position (I think he’s on to me).  However, when I told him that I wasn’t going to tickle him, he popped right up and gave me a hug.  I thought it was a pretty sudden change, so I asked him about it, and he said, “Well, you have promised you would never lie to me, so when you said you weren’t going to tickle me – I knew it was safe for the hug.”

The reality is that I have made that promise, to him and to all my kids.  I want them to know that they can trust the things I tell them, about Jesus, about life, about everything.  Proverbs 12:22 says that lying lips are an abomination to the Lord.  Matthew 5:37 and James 5:12 indicate that we should let our “yes” be “yes”; we should be trustworthy people.

The motivation comes from wanting them to believe the things they have heard me tell them about the God who created them and loves them and not wonder or worry that I made it up.  However, my truth promise has a downside – having to suffer the consequences of relating my sins of the past and foolish things I have done.

Part of my promise has included explaining that there are things I couldn’t tell them about while they were young, because they wouldn’t be able to fully grasp the complexities.  Still, I have sworn that when they are old enough, I will tell them the truth about anything they ask.  One day this past summer, Gavin asked.  We were driving across town together and we ended up having some incredible, spontaneous quality time.  He asked questions about my past relationships and I came clean about selfish and poor decisions I had made in my past.  I was embarrassed but transparent, and when we got home, before we got out of the car he thanked me for being so honest, and he told me he loves me.

I get older everyday.  It won’t be long before I won’t be able to catch any of the kids in the tickle monster game (truth be known, I think they are already starting to take it easy on me and let themselves get caught!).  But because God is both loving and just, because there are blessings for obedience and consequences for disobedience I get to experience the joy of making a promise and keeping it, with my children.  I get to bear the weight of the consequences for my disobedience, yet still bathe in the comfort of  1 John 1:9, which promises that if we confess our sins, God is faithful to forgive them and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

God keeps His promises to us.  I will keep mine with my kids.  That’s a promise.  Even if it does cut into the amount of tickling I get to do.

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